Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts

Friday, 18 October 2013

Learn to apply the Law of Attraction to your career

Applying the laws of attraction to your career



For those who do not know the theory of the laws of attraction, then you are soon to realize that it is a basic principal of the Buddhist religion. Basically what the theory stands for is the fact that if you can see yourself as it, then you can be it. It means that you are clearly in control of your own destiny and it's all about what you give to world as to what the world gives you in return. You will find that there are four basic steps to the law of attraction. 

First, you have to decide what it is that your heart desires and then ask the universe (or yourself). Secondly, you need to work on yourself from the inside out so that you can be a positive person and release your negative energy. Then you have to act like you deserve it and like you already have what it is that your heart desires. You will find that the final step will come natural and it is where you will need to allow yourself to be open to receive it. That is the basics of the law of attraction; however, you need to figure out how you can apply it in the work environment. 

The thing is that you can use the law of attraction to do anything. You can use it as a way for you to find your way at work, get a promotion, and connect with your co-workers, and so on. You can use it for any aspect of your career. However, you need to keep in mind that the energy that you have and the energy that you receive has to be positive. You can't allow some of the negativity to get to you and you can't allow yourself to be blackballed. You will need to learn to find your comfortable medium at work. 

You will also notice that the law of attraction can also help motivate you to reach your personal career goals. You will notice that the third step means that you need to take control of your career direction and act like you have already achieved your goals. This will give you a taste of what it would be like if you were successful in meeting your goals, and that will work as strong motivation. You will find that it will also help you to block the negative energy too. This will not only make you have a stronger presence at work, but it will make your personality stronger in general. You will have encouragement, empowerment, and even freedom from all the negative feelings and thoughts that you may have about yourself. 

In general, you will find that the law of attraction will help you to become a better person. You will also find that it will make you feel completely different. For instance, you may feel a little bit stronger when you walk into a silenced room and you will also get other people to notice you more. You will become a strong presence and that will make a difference in the way that your boss perceives you. You will want to keep in mind that there are a lot of ways that you can benefit from trying to use the theory in other aspects of your life and not just in your career. People who live their life by the theory tend to grow stronger, but they also tend to find their true happiness. 

You will want to give the theory a chance so you can not only work on your career, but improve your life in general.

Live your best life,

Debbie Tranter
CreateSuccess4life

Tuesday, 2 April 2013

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Wednesday, 27 March 2013

ARE YOU ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS?




The process of setting goals helps you choose where you want to go in life. By knowing precisely what you want to achieve, you know where you have to concentrate your efforts. You'll also quickly spot the distractions that can, so easily, lead you astray.


Make Your Goals SPECIFIC
Ambiguous or undefined goals aren't going to provide you with the direction you need to succeed. You want to give yourself a concrete goal so you know exactly what you're working toward. You know your goal is specific if it answers these questions:

·         WHO: Who will be involved in helping you reach your goal (including yourself)?
·         WHAT: What exact goal do you want to accomplish? Be very specific. Rather than "lose weight" or "get fit," define those terms: "I will lose 10kg," or "I will be able to run a 5K."
·         WHEN: When will you start and when will you reach your goals
·         HOW: How will you make this happen? These are the action steps to get you toward your goal. If you want to lose 10kg in 3 months, your "how's" might look something like: I will exercise for 30 minutes 5 days per week; I will track my food and calories consumed each day; and I will pack my lunch at least 3 days of the week.

Make your goals  MEASURABLE
Now that you have outlined your goals, how you will keep a track of your progress. After all, if you don't have any way to measure your goal, how will you know when you've reached it? Your goal is measurable if you can find a way to quantify your success using real numbers. Some examples of measurable goals might be number of kg's lost, a positive change in blood test i.e, cholesterol, or the number of minutes or Km's you've run or spent time exercising.

Make your goals ATTAINABLE

It's good to think big. A goal that's attainable for you is one that you believe you can reach and have the means necessary in order to achieve. 
To determine whether your goal is attainable, ask yourself honestly if you believe you can achieve it and have all the resources (including time) available to make it happen.  Do you have (or will you be able to obtain) all the support, equipment, knowledge and resources needed to put your goals into action? Does this goal fall in line with your other priorities in life? If not, how can you revise your goal to make it more realistic?

Make your goals RELEVANT

Choose goals that are personal to you. Don't choose a goal out of guilt, or just because someone else thinks it's something you "should" do. By choosing your own goals and really making them yours, you'll set yourself up for success.

What's your why? To determine if your goal is relevant, ask yourself this question. Your 'why' will help you to achieve it. So you can feel more confident? Be a good example to your kids? Or live a longer, healthier life? These whys are important because they will serve as your motivation throughout the process.

Make your goals TIMELY
If you don't put a deadline on your goal, it will be difficult to know how to pace yourself to reach it. Every goal should have a date, which will help you stay on track. In addition, set up a few benchmarks, or "mini-deadlines" to keep you on track to reaching your big-picture goal and keep yourself accountable.

Jim Rohn quotes: “If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way.  If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse”

As you start achieving your goals and experiencing those victories, celebrate them. Be happy and grateful for your successes. Then, set more goals.  Remember, it’s fun.  You design your own life.  

So get started today…  Write a list of short, medium, and long term goals. Be happy and grateful for having already achieved them.Remember, thoughts become things!Get excited about taking positive steps toward your goals. And most importantly…  celebrate your victories!  

Have some fun with this.

Debbie 

CreateSuccess4life

Wednesday, 20 March 2013

Be True To Yourself

Do you aim to please? Do you spend time trying to placate others and avoid conflict? Dr. Robin says the problem with aiming to please is that, in the end, you cheat yourself out of meaningful relationships with other people. "The truth of matter is, if you are giving people something that is not authentically your truth, you are going to lose yourself—you are going to lose the opportunity to create real relationships."

Maybe you aim to please your partner, in-laws, children, co-workers or friends. Dr. Robin says when you change your opinions and feelings about people in order to agree with others, you are not living your best life. "All you are doing is changing form, trying to keep someone happy," Dr. Robin says.

While you may be worried about losing the love or friendship of someone by being yourself, Dr. Robin says once you stop being a people pleaser, you will find a new, fresh, real you, and you will discover a life filled with meaningful and true relationships.

Read more: http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Be-True-to-Yourself#ixzz2O7bnHwu8

Tuesday, 12 March 2013

Be The Best Version Of YOU!


People often start out in January with great vigour. A new weight loss or exercise regimen, a change of job or career, a plan to get your finances in order, a deeper look at relationships with the ones closest to you.  It’s wonderful to watch people setting goals and going for it. Really striving to be ‘The Best Version of YOU!”
Now, why is it that this vigour and passion for change suddenly starts to disappear sometimes as early as February, so only a month after starting out on the journey?
There are many answers to this question . But I believe that having  clear goals in front of you, writing them down and then visualizing what life will look and feel like when you have achieved them is key to your success and saying on track.  I call this my ‘future self’. She is ME! She has achieved all the goals that I set out to achieve and she looks and feels fabulous.  Every day you stay on track is one step closer to your future self.  So keep her/him in the forefront of your mind and keep moving toward your goals.  So, ensure you have clearly defined goals. Make bold decisions that better your life and take serious action daily.  “Be The Best Version of YOU!”